Facilitating retrospectives is a tough challenge. Facilitating retrospectives while working remotely is, most of the time, an even tougher challenge. In Retrospective Meetings, the body language and non-verbal cues from participants is an important factor in the quality of the discussions and outcome of the meeting. Not being able to see this, makes it really hard to do retrospectives while working remotely. If you can have everyone on video in the online meeting for the retrospective, that is great, but even then you still have other challenges to face.
In this post, I share some learnings I have gained from facilitating retrospectives for remote teams.
Setting the stage
A big part of the effort in preparing for a retrospective meeting is understanding the context of the meeting. When you are co-located with the team in an office, it is easy to make observations, have quick chats with team members, and be “in-tune” with what is happening with the team. When working remotely you have to make an extra effort in connecting with the team. In doing so before the retrospective, you can make sure you have a good understanding about concerns the team would want to discuss in the meeting.
Flow of the meeting
When you are in an online meeting, it is easy to get distracted and lose track of what is happening in the meeting. As the facilitator of the retrospective, you need to guide the team through phases of the meeting. This is the flow of the meeting that I use:
- Review action items and previous discussion items
- Generate new discussion items
- Select items to discuss
- Agree on new action items and improvements to do
- Closing of the meeting
During the meeting, I make sure to state clearly the phase or step we are in. Groupmap also helps in directing the flow of the meeting. In the tool there are visual indicators and UI interactions which helps remind participants about the phases of the meeting.
Facing Challenges
Encouraging active participation, dealing with periods of silence, and good engagement of participants in the meeting are common challenges encountered during retrospective meetings.
I think that in meetings with remote teams it is hard to avoid calling out names of individuals to have them speak. I usually want to avoid doing this, because I think participants should speak up whenever they want to say something and that they can choose to stay silent if they really have nothing to add to the discussion. However, calling out names can help participants take turns talking, like when two or more people start answering a question at the same time during the meeting. Calling out names can also be, sometimes, the only way to encourage participation especially if the team is newly formed and is just starting to get to know one another.
In online meetings without video, long periods of silence can be more uncomfortable as participants can’t see each other. I learned that as a facilitator, you should allow this period of silence to go on without speaking up. This gives the team the space they need so they can push themselves to be more engaged in the meeting. Eventually someone will speak up. Having video and being able to see one another makes dealing with this challenge easier. Everyone can see the body language of one another and the facilitator can also use the non-verbal cues for better handling of the period of silence.
Sometimes the team may not be in the mood for doing a retrospective. Sometimes they are too busy with their current workload and would want to just focus on that. In these instances, it may be more helpful to the team to cancel the retrospective. I have also ended retrospective meetings early when I have observed that the team’s energy is quite low or they are not interested in doing the retrospective. This does not mean that you would not be having retrospectives anymore, rather the team just needs space and time to overcome the current challenge they are facing.
Same old, same old
Overall having a retrospective meeting with remote teams is almost the same as having it with a co-located team. As a facilitator, you make sure that the team is engaged and actively participating as they discover improvements that they want to make to become a better team.